three ways to live life

Many people learn this lesson the hard way, after it's too late. Honestly, being calm and letting everyone sort out their feelings is the best way sometime. It's childish to expect attention RIGHT then, just because you need it, and not show respect to the other person. It's hard, but if it's right, they'll come around.
What if the person's really stubborn, and they want to come to you, but don't know how? You try, and if they keep pushing, then walk away. Even if you can see through their words, sometimes, it's better to just leave.
So, what if you love someone so much, but they just don't love you anymore?
Honestly, you need to walk away. As hard as it might be, it's easier than trying to force someone to love you. Show respect for yourself as a person, as well as the other person involved. If they don't feel right with you, you can't make them. If it's meant to be, it will. If not, then neither of you are going to be happy. Calling them, messaging them, trying to force them to see things your way is not the mature way of dealing with the situation. It can be really tough if you'd imagined a future with them, thought they were the "one".... but if they don't feel the same, how can that be?




#2 Don't be scared of being alone, everyone has good qualities that someone will appreciate. Join a club, be with your friends... take up a new hobby, focus on self growth and what you need to be happy! So many people don't do this, but it's really important to leading to healthy life. Write music, listen to songs, paint, bike ride... find something that helps you heal.




#3:Sometimes people say hurtful things when they're angry, even when they don't really mean them. Some people can see through them, see where the anger comes from. Some people react to words right away, and are really hurt.
How does one dictionary define happy? From dictionary.com
1. Characterized by good luck; fortunate.
2. Enjoying, showing, or marked by pleasure, satisfaction, or joy.
3. Being especially well-adapted; felicitous: a happy turn of phrase.
4. Cheerful; willing: happy to help.
5.
a. Characterized by a spontaneous or obsessive inclination to use something. Often used in combination: trigger-happy.
b. Enthusiastic about or involved with to a disproportionate degree. Often used in combination: money-happy; clothes-
And to sum it all up.....what's the best way to live happy life? Find what you need to be happy. Not just from a person, but from yourself. Show respect, even if it hurts, it's better for everyone involved. Try to understand where people are coming from before reacting in anger. But this might not be what everyone needs to live a happy life. This is just one person's tale of growing up. Find yours, no matter how much it may hurt, how alone you might feel, how much you question your choices. There are many guides out there for finding personal happiness, such as Ehappy Life. If people follow what they know is right for them, how can they go wrong?

Stormy days will turn to sunny ones eventually!
Flowers At Night...